The need of compensation

I must thank Aristotle because her has taught, involuntary, to me his method fit to study both living and died, through the books that read; he has taught to me a speculative method, and the very short life human that I know, fortunately, because I prefer the died, this is the authors that the history has left to us; anyway I have could ascertained, very often, that the marriages, friendships or engagements are a compensation, this is the integration of something that we haven’t, the vivacity is often compensated from a character of other that is very silent, the fond is often accomplished from a detached character, and the life comes for vague tries of involve in this passionate nature also other, his husband or wife; but everything is born from a necessity of compensation, because unconsciously we know perfectly our nature and therefore we search something that is different, hence a compensation. In external rapports we make same thing, and when somebody is as us, we justify the detachment through the antipathy or other banal motives, necessary to justify the lack of compensation, because the similar characters, in opinion of Aristotle tie between them perfectly, certainly it is true, because every man feels whose he need, whereby a strong man could choose a strong woman but also a weak woman, in this last case it is the compensation, because the man searches the side of his character that by now he doesn’t feel; instead the man or woman that want a man strong or weak character near need of compensation, this is find an equilibrium, because it is the compensation, an equilibrium that can gives to us lack side; if we think rationally it we can understand that it is alone an egoistic research; because the compensation is a need alone our, personal without other motive; thereupon it is egoism. We can reach the equilibrium also through other tools, the objects, for example; we are charm from some object and to it we can find our compensation; often who has a limited sexual life has very much erotic fantasies, the schizophrenic images other conditions and life, that after he tells, aware that these are alone lies, but important is alone the satisfy his wit, this is the necessary compensation because out he doesn’t find attention, and the compensation is in his brain, this is think and imagine something. The paranoic is same, he is searching constantly the attention of other and when it lacks consequently he believes that everybody want harms him; it is the compensation, the satisfaction of owner egocentrism, the schizotypal is a asocial guy that compensates his solitude through the discourse and offences to the word whole; it is the compensation and that is human or alone imaginary is always compensation.

Alessandro Lusana